I've been having conversations with a fan lately who is very much into the Interracial genre of big cock cuckold porn. He's sent me e-mails and videos in which various black-on-white sex scenes are discussed or shown, and it's very clear from his tone that to him ,this is simply the hottest possible thing that can happen. It's a view I have a hard time sharing, even though I respect his kink.
I should back up. Over the course of my life, I have been sexually involved with three different black men. Cock-wise, one was on the large side of average, another very small, and the last the second biggest I've ever seen. They were all great (Even the littlest guy was fun to be with... lucky for him he got to me before I was quite the Size Queen I am today) and I will say that I have a certain appreciation for the look of darker skin. Black men are beautiful.
But I recoil from the stereotyping and innate racism that comes from the eerie sexual worship some white people seem to have for those of African descent. The web is full of proudly "Blackowned" wives and weird essays written about what some oddballs view as innate black supremacy. It is as though the most unusual form of White Guilt and Klu-Klux-Klan insanity had a freakish baby together.
For one thing, I can't help but feel some empathy for black men of average to smaller-than-average endowment. I once stumbled across a really interesting book, "Hung: Meditation on the Measure of Black Men in America" which opened my eyes to the harmfulness of building up everyone's expectations of what will lie behind the zippers of black males.
Another perspective I think that's completely left out, is how unfair this is to hung black men. A hung white guy can get an awful lot of attention and interest in his organ. A hung black guy just sort of gets this, "Well I guess that's what all black guys are like" reaction.
I know I know... there are statistics that DO show some greater size amongst black people, it's true. But where those numbers may have relevance, it is worth noting that we're talking about a small percentage of a smaller population (in the US at least) with a slight deviation towards a half-inch to inch more. It isn't that I don't think black gentlemen do not have more size by virtue of genetic boon, but that they aren't all slinging MONSTERS the way the culture seems to throw out.
I do worry though, that for fear of giving into this stereotype that I don't include enough black men in my writing. What do you think? Should more of my stories feature ultra-endowed Nubian Princes? Or am I write to buck the stereotype? Let me know what you think!
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Thanks My Queen for those very interesting thoughts. As far as I'm concerned, I don't mind you writing over ultra-endowed Nubian Princes or the stereotypes... Your writing will always be good, anyways.
ReplyDeleteI know I'm a little late to the party, but I find it interesting that we not only have a brief conversation about similar perhaps a month or so ago, and then in a totally sporadic Google search I come across one of your posts Madam Divine.
ReplyDeleteTo address the bulk of your post first. I am a black man of the average/slightly above-average endowment. While I can say that I'm fairly comfortable with my size (seven inches and a quarter) I can tell you that the stereotype, which does have a bit more truth to it outside of America, has been a discomforting reality.
Again, my size has thankfully excluded me from the ranks of conventional SPH, but I must inform you that there is a strong bias against guys who size up at six inches or below. As a teenager I can attest toe experiencing a lot of flack for not possessing super-impressive measurements.
Especially when compared, or in some cases contrasted, to a white counterpart, which technically, to be fair wasn't white as in Caucasian, but rather Portuguese due to the local demographic (I'm an islander).
I say all that to say this;
1) Outside of America and Europe the stereotype is QUITE real and to take the Caribbean and other islands of similar demographic makeup (as well as some regions in Africa), you'll find that the average of all men is about a half-inch to inch larger in general with your average black man ranging from an inch to inch-and-a-half larger than that (depending on locale). I believe Jamaican's had an average of nearly three inches over the American.
I've actually studied this in some depth, not only the evidence for, but reasoning why. It's a bit much to go on about here but if interested, I'd happily elucidate.
2) As a result of this semi-legitimization of the stereotype, it gives credence to the stereotype as a whole being true. Which in turn makes it difficult for more moderate guys like me to make an impression. Like you say, a white guy of my size would be quite proud of his length, but to me being black, I'm seen as barely batting average.
So to your questions, I 'would' like to see more black men in your writing, though it would take a masterful plot as not to lose the 'size-queen' sense of an over-endowed black man. Perhaps to rectify this, you can contrast him to another 'well-endowed' black man, or compare his to another 'overly-endowed' white man in your stories.
Conversely, you could show the 'truth' behind the stereotype, in that it has a minor amount of weight to it in America and far more so elsewhere.
You could even try to explore the idea that the stereotype, even in it's best represented form (i.e. Jamaica with the average black man batting in between eight to nine inches) still can't compare to your iconic super-stud.
Just a thought.
Signed,
Mister Steel