Alpha-Beta Soup

Happy Sunday, Studs.

A fan recently wrote to me and asked what my thoughts were on the dynamic of The Alpha Male and beta males.

Like many things, you'll find that I think this is a hot concept and one you'll see echoed in a lot of my writing. Of the few comments I've found vanity searching about myself and my work on the internet (hint hint, you all aren't out there praising me enough) one of them goes as follows:

"Size Queen Supreme:

Probably responsible for my fetish for completely ridiculous/over-the-top alpha male types and slavishly obedient women. She writes about crazy fucking women and it’s really dorky and lame, so you’re sort of laughing at it, but also getting crazy turned on at the same time." 

Now you might think I'm angry or upset at the parts of the above that aren't flattering, but on the other hand, he literally credits me with responsibility for giving him a fetish. That's not something to take lightly, and I only hope it's a fetish that gives him more pleasure over the course of his life than pain.

But I digress. Obviously, I write about Alpha Males. I have since my very first published erotica back in 2004, and while they don't appear in literally all my stories, there is something appealing about not just a huge cock, but the commanding attitude and swagger that often come along with it.

Taken outside of the context of fantasy, I find the very concept of "Alpha" or "Beta" people to be utterly dehumanizing. We take the idea from our own observations of Wolf Packs or Horses where a single dominant male essentially maintains a breeding harem of females and asserts physical dominance over the others until one of them can finally push him out due to age or infirmity.

But here's the thing. Humans aren't wolves or horses. We're primates. Our ancient ancestors did not have harems, nor rely on the idea of a single breeding stock to further our species. Most of our evolutionary traits suggest that we had numerous strategies for successfully getting with the opposite sex ranging from brute force, to enticement, to sneaky trickery.

More importantly, our ancestor females were evolved to make sex the opposite of a solo-pair act. In "Sex at Dawn" a wonderful book for examining the complexity of human sexual evolution, the authors make particular note of the phenomenon of female vocalization during sex. In Harem or Alpha-Beta type species, the women don't make loud noises at all. Humans and other primates on the other hand are absolutely DEAFENING in the moaning department! Screaming during sex is a call to the other primates, "See what's happening here! Come here! Get horny! You should all fuck! And fuck me too!" And then all those primates get together, have orgies basically, and in the end no one really knows who's kids are who's.

And that's the brilliant part. Removing obvious linkage to our offspring meant that as a UNIT, as a cohesive society, humans (and other primates) have every reason to love and defend all the children of the tribe equally ,to value all the members equally, and generally be strong as a group rather than as individuals. That's part of why humans are such a diverse and successful species. I think it's ugly and stupid to try to apply the standards of completely different animals to ourselves at times, and when I see people getting shunted into categories like "Alpha" and "Beta" that's when I worry.

But now that I've bored your balls off with an anthropology lesson, let me speak to the fantasy side of things.

Yes, it's an absolutely cunt-melting thought, the superior, strong stud of an alpha male:

And there's no better way to make the superiority of said alpha any clearer than to compare it with another, lesser male:

That's right boys. Figure out if you're the cock in her right hand or the cock in her left, and sort yourselves accordingly.

Beta's to the left.

I'll be over here with the big Alpha cocks instead.

Goodnight.

Wang Worship Wednesday: Fan Service

Hey all, back here with another brave exhibitionist who just wanted to show off!

Now I don't mean for the "brave" part of that to be a jab at his size. Obviously he's no Ten-Inch Marvin or Bruce-Venture monster, but his willingness and ability to whip it out and get it up for an appearance here in the face of those people is not without courage when he's on the larger side instead of the HUGER side.

But then again, look at this gorgeous picture. That, right there is a thick hunk of meat in the "Spearhead" style (not the less flanged cockhead, a rarer trait but common enough that I see it from time to time) but the nice thing is that this feature really calles attention to the girth of that middle. Big cockheads have their advantages in terms of anchoring, no lie, but there's something really special too about one that sneaks in the biggest surprise in the middle.

Now this shot is pretty fore-shortening and therefore less flattering to length, but it does show that thickness goes all the way around instead of being one of those models where they're wide but not "deep" in the other dimension. And I'd like to pause to make a point here: You guys often don't give yourselves enough credit. With the exception of the absolute donkey-dicks who bathe their whole lives in praise, many of the largish guys I hear from think they're average, many of the average guys think they're small, and even some of the small guys put themselves in the microphallus category when they could be servicing a woman with what they have to offer just fine. I know this is a departure from my usual Size-Queenish tendancies, and I promise those are not behind us, but every now and then it's important for me to step back from that and remind you guys that the heart of what I write is fetish fantasy. Fantasy as in "unreal". Every single one of you studs has something to be proud of in your cock, no matter what size. I want you to appreciate what you have.

Like maybe a pair of fat fucking balls!

Alright, you caught me. I didn't just choose this applicant for his lovely cock. Look at the weight of these monsters at rest:

I'll bet that poor overtaxed scrotum feels nice to have those heavy burdens supported by something else.

They even make an appearance from the top, which is not something every man can manage.

TL;DR?

Your cock is probably a lot more awesome than you realize. If you're not sure about that, maybe think of showing me and I'll straighten you right out, stud.

veronicadivineff@gmail.com

The Measure of a Man

First of all, I have a new book out! My publisher snuck it in, so please snap it up while it's hot!
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0728FVSDK/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1495384186&sr=8-1&keywords=Harem+of+Vanity

So I'm thinking about measurement this morning. It's fascinating to me that one of the reasons I'm often considered to be less of an erotic author and more of a pornographer is that my stories tend to inform specific measurements. One of the first rules people giving advice about erotica tend to follow is that you should never state specific measurements.

I've never entirely understood this. I mean, I get how it wouldn't be classy is you were supposedly telling a true story and were using it as an opportunity to brag about your huge tits or huge cock, but when you know it's fiction from the get-go, why does it matter?

And here's the thing; This advice wouldn't exist if it weren't something a lot of people were trying to do in their work to begin with. In other words, it's either our instinct or it sexually excites us to get into the nitty gritty details of just how big that thing was. I find it so funny that we try to stifle our impulses when we write this way.

I also find that trying to gauge size is really difficult when it comes to cock. Not only do the damned things change size, but every different angle or perspective gives a whole different sense of the dimensions. From the right angle, a monster can look miniscule and a flattering picture can make a mouse look massive. All but the biggest and smallest of men I've known all seem to think they're smaller than they really are.

So erase the taboo of the ruler. Whip 'em out and measure 'em, boys, you might be pleased by what you learn.

Sunday Size-Up+Wang Worship Wednesday (ON THURSDAY!)

Hey everybody, I'm so so sorry I've missed both of my post deadlines for this week. Unfortunately, work has been pounding me harder than one of my stories' male characters these last two weeks, and alas, it's not as fun.

I think an end is in sight so I shouldn't be missing more, but I'll keep you all posted.

In other news, I think I know what I'm going to write for the comic script, though I've got to run it by my backers before I get started, but I think it's a pretty hot concept so we'll probably be getting going soon.

Now...onto some belated Wang-Worship.

This week, I wanted to talk about THIS professional Cock:

Now if you already know this performer who fans have shared at me many times, the big clue is that interesting coloring. I don't know why Bruce Venture has a multi-colored cock (though his web-page jokes that it's so big it can't decide if it's supposed to be black or not) but off-colored racial humor aside, there's no question that the man is hung with a capital HOLY FUCK.

Only a cock like this can bring mortal enemies like Cat and Mouse together! And I especially love the way there's room for at least two more worshippers on that thing!

But the main reason I wanted to feature this stupid is that because among the well-endowed, there seems to be a phenomenon of gentle giants. Men who understandably have learned their size can hurt and tend to hold back as a result. Not since White Pony has a performer worked so hard to bring real roughness. He doesn't have it on display in all of his movies, but when he does, oooo yes is it ever cunt-tsunami time. Unfortunately, it's hard to show rougness here, but I reccommend going to your favorite porn site and typing "Bruce Venture Rough" as a search. You will not be disappointed. Here are a few stills/gifs that were the closest I could come to showing what I mean:

Alright, I hope that keeps you all tided over while I get free from these work shackles. Stay big for me, studs!

Wang Worship Wednesday: WWWW (The fourth 'W' is for Wisconsin)

Hey all! Happy Wang Worship Wednesday. This is a fan-submitted week and out big this time is a lovely eight-and-a-half Incher from the Midwest who couldn't wait to show off his long, thick cock and big balls.

Well, maybe he could wait a little to tease us with this lovely bulge...

And as you all know, I like to start at the balls. I'm especially a fan of how much cleft his has...like the poor boys are too big for the sack they came in.

But you know what we all came to see. That thing has a really frightening extra-thick part right behind the head there, and I know when if I deepthroat him that part is going to be the bit that has this size-queen gagging.

Apparently they grow more than great dairy cows in our humble Cheesehead state...

I'll talk to you all again on Sunday about who-knows-what, and after that, a new celebricock that I very much hope you'll enjoy.

Ta-ta to these ta-tas for now!

-V

Escaping the Valley: Can we talk about Titty-Fucking?

Hi all!

First of all, good news! The fundraising was successful after all, and thanks to some generously-endowed and generously-endowing last-minute support, we get to have a comic book made. Those who donated the most have requested that I do something new for it, an original script if you will, so it's going to take me a little time bang that out and get it sent off to the artist for his side of it.

And working on this script has me thinking about the nature of titfucking.

You see, I'm a smut-writer by craft, and I never realized before just how lucky we writers are. Yes, we have to have a certain amount of descriptive talent to get you through sex scenes that we can't show you visually, but at the same time, that gives us a freedom that artists don't have.

How many times have you read me writing about mammary-based sex and seen sentences where I describe breasts so big they swallow cocks whole, or cocks so big they poke out from between even the largest tits?

I've certainly written that kind of thing a lot, but while trying to do the script, it hit me that there are SO many variations for how a titfuck might be working.

Let's start with tits so big they swallow cocks whole:

You can BARELY see the head of that dick protruding from between those funbags right?

Here's the thing... if she wanted to, she could squeeze those together and completely obscure the cock in the shot all-together. A man who is well-endowed in the 8 inch range cannot hope to escape even pretty small tits when you get down to it. Sure, if you hold them gently to emphasize their roundness, then you can get a shot like the one above... but when breasts get squeezed together, they add a dramatic amount of height both to the bottom and top of the cleavage-valley. Like this:

The gentleman in this picture is cheating because even those she's squeezing harder (making an inescapable cleavage valley) he's actually starting from about the middle-of her boobs. He's not really big enough to poke up through those monsters, but because the fine people at naughty-america want to create a visual that doesn't lose the dick entirely, they work with solutions like this.

Speaking as a big-boob-haver who has worked hard to get a lot of action from larger men, I can tell you that even the biggest of those guys has yet to really out-do my boobs.

That being said, I've never fucked a guy quite like this:

So I guess if you happen to know him, why not tell him to give me a call?

But now that I'm done staring and drooling, I digress. I'm glad I'm not an artist... I wouldn't begin to know how to choose which way to draw a moment like this in a sex scene. Writing is hard work of its own, but I get to rely on all of your wonderful imaginations to make some of the actions I write about work where they might not look right visually.

I'll address you all again on the next WangWorshipWednesday, and until then, I'll just keep mine oiled up for you...

Wang Worship Wednesday: Ten inches of trouble

Hey everyone! Last day of the indiegogo project and unfortunately it's looking like we might fall just short of our goal. Of course if you catch this quick and want to change that, now's your chance. This is the last time I'll be linking it, I promise:

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/veronica-divine-devilhs-graphic-novel/x/16410988#/

Now then! With that tiresome business out of the way, I'd like to draw your attention to this week's WangWorshipWednesday segment, and believe me, it is a special one.

Meet Marvin. Or, more accurately, Meet Marvin's Meat.

Marvin is a hard-fucking, deep-dicking stud from California who has one of the best blogs from the perspective of a hung male who revels in it I've ever seen. While practicing the swingers lifestyle, he indulges in (or rather, indulges women in) sex with a great big cock. Not only does he post videos and pictures of what he gets up to on his tumblog: http://bigoneforfun.tumblr.com/ but he also maintains a very active Pornhub account as well where you can see him putting in WORK.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph58f3fe87529b5


I'm not kidding, it's obvious from any few minutes of his videos that the boy can seriously fuck, and his partners don't tend to hold back on what they love about him. In my favorite of his clips, his lover can be heard moaning breathlessly about his big cock over and over, even measurement-checking him in her throes of passion. I started with the picture above because while it's from a distance, the mirror-shot really gives you some impression of just how far back she is yet still sucking his cock. It's just that long.

Possibly the best part of his blog though are the snippets of correspondence you get to see between him and various lovers, most of which are extolling just what wondrous things his huge cock has done for them. It's the most behind-the-scenes look at the life of a real non-commercial stud I've ever seen, and it's difficult not to become quite the cyber-stalker for the boy once you've gotten a taste.

Alright, if you want more than that you'll have to go check it out for yourselves. Be warned, for all but the best endowed among you, this could provoke a lot of unexpected penis envy. Also: My few but fearless female fans, he's willing to travel and makes himself quite available if you want to try him on for yourself.

In closing, because he's such an open book, I e-mailed him and asked if he'd be willing to do a little interview for me. To my delight, he said yes, and so I present for all of you: Ten Questions for Ten Inches:

1. When did you first realize you were exceptionally hung, and what was it that tipped you off?

It was my mid 20's.  I tend to be skeptical so when gf would say it was big, I automatically assumed they said that to make me feel good.  Wasn't til I started swinging I realized it was true.  

2. What is the best thing anyone has ever said about your cock?

 Hard to say what the best thing has been.  Gets lots of compliments.  I think my favorites have been The unsuspecting.  One woman yelled, "what the fuck!" And I've had two women take pics of it next to their arms to show their friends the size.  

3. What is the deepest you've ever been taken in a mouth?

All the way, but very rare.  I'm not a fan of deepthroating, it can hurt and I prefer someone not to challenge themselves but take what makes us both enjoy it. 

4. What is your favorite part about being massively endowed?

 Favorite part?  It makes my personal life a lot easier. I have options in who I see and who I choose to be with. It also opens up opportunities.

5. Is there anything you'd change about your sex life, or is it perfect as is right now?

What would I change?  Honestly, I have a lot of adventures but I miss a relationship.  I would love to have a relationship again, even if it means giving up on my adventures.  There's things I miss about marriage.  

6. Have you ever hurt anyone with your giant dick?

No.  I've had women tap out and sore for days but I'm very conscious about my partner and what they can take.

7. If you were not as "gifted" as you are, do you think you'd still have the same talent for sex? You leave a lot of satisfied customers in your wake obviously, but do you feel you owe any of it to your stamina, creativity, or partner-reading ability?

It does make a difference in style and reading your partner.  I took time to learn about my partners and what is good for them.  A big dick is useless if you can't use it well.  And it's also about appreciating the person your with, they are distinct and important people, treat them with respect.  That helps build a connection.  I can use and fuck a woman like an object if our mutual sexual desires ask for that, but before and after she is still an individual.  Play time she maybe treated as an object but i still treat her with respect before and after.

8. If the world were more open to exposure, who's face would you really like to rub your superior size in? 

I really wouldn't, but I wish I could say who I've fucked. I hide the identities of the people I meet and am no name dropper.  I don't care if people acknowledge me, I don't hide, but unless they do, I don't make our time together public.  I wish I could, I have played with some models and pornstars off camera that I would love to say: "I fucked her".  But i don't expose people who swing, so it's a little collection of secrets I keep to myself.  

9. How do you like your balls treated by a partner? I've seen only small glimpses of those big boys getting any attention, and as a dedicated ball-girl I always want to know...

 It's partner specific, I'm never set on any one thing.  I'm big menu.  What is good with one might not be good with another.  

10. If I were to write a story about you, smutty or otherwise, what would you like for it to be about?

That I don't know.

And there you have it folks. I was impressed by how much humility he has for a guy with a huge dick; it may arouse my fantasies when guys brag and boast and all that... but there's something special about the human element behind the fantasies. I hope you've all enjoyed!